It Takes A Village


Hi everyone,

Happy Mental Health Awareness Month!

Mother's day is right around the corner and it really had me reflecting on what it means to be a mother. More than the traditional sense, it means showing up when you're needed most. It means nurturing, caring, and raising something, or someone, even if that something isn't a person.

I've always joked about being a mother to my ideas and projects.

When I was captain of my dance team in high school and college, I called the team my baby because I helped nurture each dancer's growth and watched them improve. The amount of love and care I still have for them is unmeasurable. (If you're reading this, hi kids!)"

But I couldn't have done it alone.

Shoutout to my co-captain, Radhika. And the rest of my Nehriyan Bhangra village for giving me the best environment to thrive as a captain and mentor you through a whole year of performances.

"It takes a village."

You know the saying. And it's not just true when raising children, but when nurturing anything.

Your dreams, your healing, your community, even yourself. We need each other.

So, here's your reminder that you don't have to carry it all alone. There is strength in leaning on your community.

Healing, and growing, requires care, nurturing, and strength. It requires us to lean on one another as we travel our path of healing.

I'm giving you permission to lean on me.

This week's reflection:

What village has helped raised you?

Who or what has held you, made you feel safe, or helped you become who you are? And how are you showing up in someone else’s village?

Share this with them to show your appreciation.

Want to share your story for our In Bloom series? Use the submission link below, we would love to share it with the Aangan.

I need your help!

Aangan has many exciting things coming up. But I need my village to help me out!

POEM

Sonder

I am anything but a vessel. Thought to be hollow by some. Overflowing with potential by others. Yet I am merely a human. Overwhelmed by taking a breath alone regardless of the crowd which surrounds me. The underlying feeling of sonder and solitude have become unbearable yet comforting. Such an interesting feeling for one to experience. The unprovoked fear of Sonder. I suppose I'm getting older.

-Hansika

This week I also wanted to share a poem written by a dear friend and sister, Hansika. I really enjoyed reading this poem, a great description of how many of us might be feeling, trying to make sure we make the best decision or cater to everyone's needs. But at the end of the day, we are all human who need love and support.

So, happy Mother's day. To all the mothers and mother-figures. I'm so happy you're here.

With love,
Reshika
Founder | Aangan

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